Celebrating a remarkable life

Christopher Jerome Abeyaratne

By Dinu Dehigama 

Every year, the 20th of July brings with it cherished memories of family celebrations. It was always a day filled with laughter, gratitude and togetherness as we celebrated my father’s birthday. Although three years have passed since he left us, I still find myself hearing his voice and recalling his reassuring presence before reality reminds me that he is no longer with us.   

Some people leave behind accolades, trophies or photographs. My father left something far more enduring. He left behind unwavering principles, immense courage, boundless kindness and a legacy that continues to guide our family every single day.   

Christopher Jerome Abeyaratne, affectionately known to everyone as “Christie” and to us simply as “Thaththi”, lived a full and rewarding life. Whatever challenges or disappointments came his way, he accepted them with remarkable grace and resilience. He feared no man, only the Almighty, and carried himself with dignity and humility.   

Born on 20th July 1940, he was the second eldest child of a military father and a mother and grew up alongside five siblings. From his father he inherited courage, discipline and determination; from his mother, an appreciation for beauty, creativity and compassion. These qualities shaped the exceptional man he became.   

Educated at St. Benedict’s College, Kotahena, he was a sportsman who excelled in sports and studies and remained deeply grateful to his alma mater throughout his life.   

His entrepreneurial journey began in the early 1960s as an apprentice and later a foreman at DIMO. Armed with determination, experience and unwavering self-belief, he established Sparklit Motors (Pvt) Limited in 1964, beginning with a mechanical workshop and spare parts store.   

Sparklit Motors grew to become one of Sri Lanka’s pioneering companies in hydraulics, hydraulic hoses and genuine spare parts, and was the only company at that time manufacturing hydraulic jacks.   

One of the principles he lived by was never to borrow beyond his means. He believed in growing steadily and building a reputation that money alone could never buy. His word was his bond, and customers returned because they trusted the man behind the business. In an era where integrity is often spoken about, he quietly lived it every day.   

Despite his many accomplishments, his greatest pride was never his business. It was his family.   

For over fifty years he shared a marriage with my mother. Their relationship was built on mutual respect and unwavering support. Their marriage was a beautiful example of commitment, partnership and enduring love.   

As a father, he taught us values. He taught us to be humble, compassionate, patient and respectful. He never corrected us through fear or anger, but through explanation and by setting the example himself.   

His love grew deeper when he became a grandfather. His grandchildren were among the greatest joys of his life, and nothing brought him more happiness than spending time with them. Through his wisdom, humour and calm guidance, he taught them confidence, resilience and the importance of finding happiness in the simplest moments. They will forever carry with them the lessons he shared.   

To our In-laws, friends and colleagues, Thaththi was more than a relative or a businessman. He was a mentor, a counsellor and a trusted friend. His generosity extended quietly to those in need, never seeking recognition.   

Becoming the Charter President of the Lions Club of Kadawatha allowed him to serve his community, a role he embraced with enthusiasm, dedication and immense pride.   

Equally close to his heart was his church. As the founder and first President of the Catholic Youth Council of St. Andrew Avellino Church, Kadawatha, he devoted hours to strengthening his parish community. His faith was not something he merely professed; it was something he lived every day through service, compassion and humility.   

Those who knew my father will remember not only his leadership but also his warmth, wit and charisma. He had a sense of humour, a visionary outlook and an ability to make everyone around him feel at ease. He commanded respect without demanding it and led by example rather than authority. Strong yet compassionate, confident yet humble, he inspired countless people by being himself.   

As we remember him on what would have been his birthday, we celebrate the eighty-three years he lived. We celebrate a life defined by integrity, courage, generosity, faith and unconditional love. We celebrate an entrepreneur who inspired many, a father who shaped his children, a grandfather who cherished his family and a community leader who devoted his life to serving others.   

Christopher Jerome Abeyaratne’s story did not end three years ago. It was the values he instilled in everyone who knew him.   

Happy Heavenly Birthday, Thaththi.   

Your love, wisdom and example remain our greatest inheritance. Though you no longer walk beside us, your legacy continues to light our path every day, and for that, we remain forever grateful!   

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