Balancing Energies for Relationships

Many homes experience bad Feng Shui in the form of arguments, lack of financial support and lot of stress which leads to unhappiness, bad relationship and dwindling marriage prospects of young men and women.

Many a time, finding a suitable partner or alliance may not be too difficult but to hold on to the relationship and take it towards a life time commitment through marriage could get difficult due to many reasons especially lack of finance.

Activating good energy in specific sectors of the home will help to ensure that money flow is not choked up. To encourage a good energy flow in your money area focuses on the Southeast sector of your home and living area. South East represents Wood element hence one can strengthen the energy of money and wealth through these simple Feng Shui moneytips:-

• Place healthy, lush green plants at South East of living room and the garden of the home.
• A clean water feature or even an image of a water fall at South East would help
• Decorate the South East sectors with colours blue, green and brown, the colours of the Feng Shui elements of Wood and Water

Once wealth has been taken care of through Feng Shui remedies, next counter disagreements, arguments and lack of understanding which is delaying the decision making by identifying the cause of such negative influences. Frequent arguments at home will make the occupants feel depressed and cause irritation which is like constantly wearing an uncomfortable pair of shoes, or clothing that does not fit. After some time this starts to irritate and bother the person.. No matter how hard one may try to suppress this negative energy - sooner or later, the person will just burst out.

From the Feng Shui perspective, the house is referred to as the third skin (clothing being considered your second skin, energy-wise). The way you choose your clothing intelligently to make yourself comfortable and in turn make your personal energy flow freely and harmoniously, the choice of your home decides the quality of the energy within.

As the personal energy of the individual is connected to everything around us we are influenced and affected by our immediate surroundings. There are no real, strict boundaries in the world of energy; this is why good Feng Shui in any space is so important. A good Feng Shui house nurtures the energy. Hence try and improve your personal energy which can in turn contribute towards a better house energy.

1. Do your best with fixing all the Feng Shui challenges that create the current tension.
2. Focus on your breathing every time you are in conflict and choose to express if not love, then at least calm and neutrality. Smile, and trust that things will get better. 

When you work on the Feng Shui of your house while truly keeping in mind both points, you will create beautiful, long lasting results in your relationship. Later on, you might even be grateful for this house, because it helped change some unconscious emotional patterns that were standing in your way of a loving relationship.