‘Following the inner voice whatever the consequences’

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If we want to take appropriate action to fix something that is not working properly, then it is necessary to understand, precisely, the nature of the problem. Obviously, if our diagnosis is inaccurate, then the solution applied is unlikely to work.
This principle of needing to understand a problem accurately before we can devise and implement an appropriate solution applies to all fields of human endeavour, whether it be a mechanical, scientific, health or environmental problems or a conflict at any level of human relationships.
The most important impediment to understanding and resolving any problem or conflict is our fear of knowing the truth. We spend a lot of our time trying to deal with problems and conflicts by deluding ourselves about the cause and the solution necessary.

For example, the truth is that most of us are addicted to using violence in one or more of the following ways (among many others): we want to reserve the right to use violence to control or ‘discipline’ our children, we want to pretend that our unhealthy diet is not the cause of our ill-health if we like eating all of

those unhealthy foods, we want to be able to consume more than we really need and pretend that the ongoing destruction of the natural environment and the accelerating climatic catastrophes are unrelated to our own behavior or we want to buy those cheap consumer goods made by exploited workers (and sometimes even child labour) in those factories in Africa, Asia and Central/South America where the largest corporations are less encumbered by such considerationsas a requirement to pay fair wages and taxes, to address health and safety concerns, and to consider other human rights and environmental issues. And we want to blame other people for our conflicts and if looking at ourselves deeply in the mirror might tell us something about ourselves, that we don’t want to know.

"For most of us, one outcome of this violence is that we learn to not trust ourselves and to fear the truth that is internally communicated to us. As a result, decisive action, outside that which is obviously socially endorsed, becomes impossible"

But if we want to deal adequately with any problem or conflict, first of all we need to be courageous enough to acknowledge the truth, including any truth about ourselves. Why is this so difficult? Why have we become afraid of the truth?
Like all of our fears, the fears that tell us that we cannot understand a problem and that we cannot fix it originate in our childhood experience.Evolution has given all human beings an enormous array of potentialcapacities for knowing the truth in a diverse variety of circumstances.

These include sensory perception such as sight, hearing, smell and touch to provide accurate information about the external world; feelings such as thirst, hunger, nausea, dizziness and physical pain to provide accurate information about the state of our body and what it needs; memory to store and provide access to learning from past experiences; a ‘truth register’ to detect lies and other misinformation; intuition to ‘listen’ to and remain in touch with ‘the big picture’ of life as a whole; conscience to enable us to make and act on those difficult moral choices that, for example, might ultimately require us to act against social conventions or unjustlaws; more feelings such as fear, happiness, emotional pain, joy, anger, satisfaction, sadness, sexual ones and a vast variety of others to tell us what is happening for us in any given situation and to give us the power to behave appropriately in this context when the time is right; and intellect to acquire, interpret, analyse and evaluate information from these and other sources, such as written material.

"Like all of our fears, the fears that tell us that we cannot understand a problem and that we cannot fix it originate in our childhood experience.Evolution has given all human beings an enormous array of potentialcapacities for knowing the truth in a diverse variety of circumstances."

Tragically, however, much of modern socialisation seriously inhibits or even destroys the development of these genetic potentialities – by inflicting what I have called ‘invisible’ and ‘utterly invisible’ violence on us throughout our childhood: see ‘Why Violence?’ http://tinyurl.com/whyviolence and ‘Fearless Psychology and Fearful Psychology: Principles and Practice’ http://anitamckone.wordpress.com/articles-2/fearless-and-fearful-psychology/ – because they would make us powerful in ways that run counter to what society wants: as a result, we each become a ‘socially-constructed delusional identity’ (student, employee/soldier, citizen) who is readily manipulated and coerced by society instead of becoming the powerful individual – our ‘True Self’ – that evolution intended.

For most of us, one outcome of this violence is that we learn to not trust ourselves and to fear the truth that is internally communicated to us. As a result, decisive action, outside that which is obviously socially endorsed, becomes impossible.
In contrast, powerful individuals who know the truth are not unthinkingly obedient. Powerful individuals trust their ‘inner voice’, as Mahatma Gandhi called it: ‘You should follow your inner voice whatever the consequences’.

"For example, the truth is that most of us are addicted to using violence in one or more of the following ways (among many others): we want to reserve the right to use violence to control or ‘discipline’ our children"

Despite the fact that our fear is often telling us that some problems are monumental and there is no way forward (which, for example, our fear might tell us in relation to the vast environmental challenges we now face), in fact there are sensible, straightforward solutions to virtually all of our problems. And while this will mean that we often need to change our own behaviour, most of those changes will require little effort and can be easily accomplished. Of course, the genuinely powerful individual is able to take responsibility for making changes that set an example and inspire others to act too. In contrast, if we wait for others to take the lead or if we lobby elites to act on our behalf, we will usually find the experience pretty disempowering and this will reinforce our fear that problems cannot be solved.
The bottom line is this: Can you still hear your inner voice? And do you, like Mahatma Gandhi, have the courage to follow it ‘whatever the consequences?

(Courtesy: Eurasia Review)

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‘Following the inner voice whatever the consequences’

"For most of us, one outcome of this violence is that we learn to not trust ourselves and to fear the truth that is internally communicated to us. As a result, decisive action, outside that which is obviously socially endorsed, becomes impossible"

"Like all of our fears, the fears that tell us that we cannot understand a problem and that we cannot fix it originate in our childhood experience.Evolution has given all human beings an enormous array of potentialcapacities for knowing the truth in a diverse variety of circumstances."

"For example, the truth is that most of us are addicted to using violence in one or more of the following ways (among many others): we want to reserve the right to use violence to control or ‘discipline’ our children"

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